When we look around us today, we see many people reading self-help book or participating in workshops which they think will empower them to change for the better. "Self-improvement" and "self-fulfillment" are popular catch words.
Truly, 'change' has become fashionable these days.Also common are sayings such as "To change the way you are, change who you think you are" or "Whatever you want in your life, the key to success is to transform yourself". The overarching idea here is that we have the ability and the power to take control our lives, to transform it and to determine our own destiny.
What am I giving up?As we enter into the first Week of Lent, many of us are also determined to experience some form of change. One of the main ways we try to achieve this is by practicing acts of self-denial. And so, the question that is often asked is, "
What am I giving up for Lent?"
It is, no doubt, an important question. The difficulty arises, however, when we start to think that self-denial itself, that is, what or how much we want to give up to
God, is what Lent is all about.
But lent is not only about self-denial. It is mainly about
us being transformed by God, especially in those areas of our lives where we are acting irresponsibly. Acts of self-denial are means by which we
empty ourselves so that God can take control of our lives.The temptation to take control
In the Gospel reading this Sunday, we read how the devil tried to tempt
Jesus to achieve or obtain whatever he wants by his own power (
Matt 4:1-11). The devil was trying to tell Jesus, "Don't depend on
God. You have the ability and power to take control of your life and to determine your own destiny."
Jesus, however, denied himself what was promised by the devil - physical possessions and pleasure, power and authority - not because he wanted to show how good he was or what great self-control he had. Rather,
Jesus knew that his very existence and mission on earth depended on his emptying himself totally so that God can take complete control of his life.So, the question for Lent is not "what am I giving up: but instead "
what can I do to allow God to transform me?" The answer depends greatly, of course, on who we think is really in control -
God or us.
by Dr Steven Selvaraju
This is another great article, it asked us a very interesting question, 'what are we giving up for lent?', is it how much we give up for God, is what Lent is all about. Matthew 6 teaches us to be humble, to give charity without publicly, to pray privately without the need to boast like the hypocrites, to forgive people, and to not seek praises form people when fasting. when God sees what we do in private, He will reward us.
This article challenge us to think differently, instead of "what we can do for God", we should be asking "what God want to do through us" God is in control of our life, and let God's will be done.
Let us pray for the victims of Japan tsunami and also pray that may God's will be done
Love,Lionel
